That’s a big BUT

I have missed out on a few opportunities in my life because of my BUT.  (That’s “BUT” with one “T”, not two.)  Maybe your BUT has gotten in the way of your success as well: I want to try something new BUT I’m not sure I can do it. I want to change careers BUT I’m…

Believing in ghosts

Another good friend from work just announced she was leaving for a new job.  When you work in a large company, change is inevitable. The more people in your company, the higher the odds are that your work friends will move into other positions inside or outside the company.  But it’s still a shock to…

The value of humiliation

When interviewed about the secret to American Idol’s success, Simon Cowell replied, “It’s all about the humiliation.”  He is of course referring to the early audition trainwrecks they invite in to sing for the judges, knowing full well they will be laughed at.  We used to get Paula Abdul mitigating the pain for these delusional…

Tell your face

Some of us hide our emotions better than others.  Sometimes we can’t help showing the world how we’re feeling. I remember rushing through the airport on the way to a tradeshow.  I was responsible for setup; worried about the booth and brochures arriving on time; finishing the script for the sales team; and whether everyone…